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Respect: How It Is Measured

  • Writer: Raymond Melendez
    Raymond Melendez
  • Aug 6
  • 3 min read

Updated: Aug 26

While today’s surveys measure respect through public admiration—often driven by perceived integrity, influence, and leadership—the Holy Scriptures offer a deeper truth. The stories of Joseph and Judah in Genesis show that respect is rooted in character, growth, and purpose. Life teaches that respect stems from what someone achieves and how that impacts others.



The Measure of Influence, Integrity, and Endurance


Whether gauged through surveys or revealed in Holy Scripture, respect goes beyond popularity. In modern polls like YouGov and Gallup, those who consistently earn admiration do so not just through fame, but through the character they embody and the influence it has on others. Likewise, in the story of Joseph, respect is not immediately granted—it is earned through meeting a need, especially in times of adversity. For every individual, including biblical heroes, respect emerges as a response to an action.


"So when the Midianite merchants came by, his brothers pulled Joseph up out of the cistern and sold him for twenty shekels of silver to the Ishmaelites, who took him to Egypt" (Genesis 37:28).

This verse marks the beginning of Joseph’s journey, which ultimately becomes a story of respect through God's provision. Though he is betrayed and sold, Joseph does not let his emotions define him. Instead, he rises—over time—to a position of great influence in Egypt, gaining respect because God was with him.


From Media Influence to Messianic Honor


White headstones in a cemetery, one with an American flag. Trees in the background. Somber and reflective atmosphere.

Respect is influenced not only by personal character but also by how that character is revealed to others. In today’s world, the media amplifies or diminishes respect through selective portrayal, influencing public perception of leaders. Similarly, in Scripture, Judah’s growth, acknowledgment of God, and role in history lead to blessings that point beyond himself—to the Messiah. Whether through headlines or holy scripture, respect emerges when purpose points to something greater.


Honor: Leadership That Reigns


In our society, respect is gained through consistent actions guided by values that make a difference in people's lives. This is exemplified by individuals such as Bill Gates and Michelle Obama, whose worldwide influence arises from their dedication to the greater good. But Holy Scripture draws a distinction: while respect is earned, honor is inherent. Jesus Christ is honored for who he is—the Son of God, the rightful King. Together, these perspectives remind us that while respect is built on impact, honor is grounded in identity.


"The scepter will not depart from Judah, nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet, until he to whom it belongs shall come and the obedience of the nations shall be his" (Genesis 49:10).

This prophetic blessing from Jacob speaks of honor and kingship inherently tied to identity—specifically, through the tribe of Judah, from which Jesus Christ, the rightful King, would come. It underscores that while respect can be demonstrated through action, honor—like Christ’s—is rooted in identity.


What We Respect and Who We Honor

The individuals we respect reflect our deepest values—integrity, service, authenticity, etcetera. In today's world, respect remains a universal metric of what we long for in others. But Holy Scripture, including the Book of Mormon, reminds us that while respect is earned, honor is given to Christ simply because of who he is. As we admire others for what they do, honor comes from the One who defines who we are, not through effort, but by identity.


"The natural, worldly nature of man stands in opposition to God and has done so since the fall of Adam. This condition will persist indefinitely—unless an individual chooses to respond to the promptings of the Holy Spirit, relinquishes their sinful tendencies, and grows into a devoted follower of Christ through the redeeming power of his atonement" (Mosiah 3:19).

This verse emphasizes that identity in Christ is the redeeming power of his atonement. While we may respect individuals for their impact, honor is given to Christ.


The Eternal Scepter: From Judah to Christ

Joseph teaches that respect is earned—through righteousness, wisdom, and perseverance. Judah shows that praise, especially of God, transforms us into respectable individuals worthy of admiration. But ultimately, honor is given to Jesus Christ, not for what he has done, but because of who he is. As the scepter passes from Judah, it rests in the hands of Christ, whom all people honor.

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